Saturday, May 19, 2018

Age of Understanding

I always like to people watch. I especially like to when fun things are about to happen. Me, just sitting back, watching how people want to control/enjoy the situation.

Like for example, a simple water balloon fight. 


The fun mom who had the idea of having that in her yard, wanted the game to be set up with rules. She wanted marked areas for the big kids to stand in and the little kids to be closest to the basket of balloons. 


The middle age kids (ages 9 & 7) listened and stood where they were supposed to, but definitely wished they could say what the oldest kid shouted out to his mom...


"Just let us have fun! There shouldn't be any rules for a water balloon fight. You always do this." (Age 17)


The mom responded in agreement/defeat and threatened a little kid who was sneaking up on her to get her with a balloon. 


The one who took advantage of being little and her placement closest to the basket of balloons, seemed to be the most successful. She seemed to have little more understanding of the activity because of her age (4). 


The two youngest involved (age 3) just liked to pick up the balloons and throw them on the floor right by their feet, not caring one freaking bit that this was an actual water balloon fight. They were not the least bit concerned that people were throwing balloons at them and even squirting them from behind. 


So, I again people watched. My little people watched with their cute cousins people watched. I even filmed it because, come on... it's adorable.


Pretty funny how each kid's perspective or understanding of a water balloon fight is just a bit different from the others because of their age.


Monday, May 14, 2018

Callings

In this church, this church I go to, this church I'm a member of, this church called The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, we have callings.

A calling is an job/assignment, if you will, that you are responsible for fulfilling. You do it to serve the members of your ward and you do it the the best of your ability.

I've had a bunch of callings in my adulthood. Primary teacher, Primary secretary, Primary 1st counselor, Primary 2nd counselor, Primary president, Young Women's leader, Young Women's counselor, Compassionate Service Coordinator, Sunday School Teacher for the youth, and that's all I can remember at the moment.

But right now, I'm not in any of these callings.

I'm in 2 different callings that I've never had before and I'm so thankful for them both at this stage in my life.

1st - Relief Society Activities Planning Committee 

If you couldn't tell from all of my previous calls, I've never really got to spend a lot of time with women. I've worked a lot with youth, and I've loved every second. Well... almost every second. But now, I get to spend my Sundays sitting in Sunday School next to my Sugar and in Relief Society being enriched and focus on the testimonies of some amazing women, that help strengthen mine.

My calling is not a demanding calling on Sundays and I love that.

But what I love most, is getting to help plan activities for these women. Activities where we can gather together as sisters enjoying each others company, ministering to one another, building them up in whatever way they need, be it spiritual or emotional, and eating a cookie or two while doing it.

For example: 
"Seasons of Motherhood"

We invited sisters from our ward to share a message of their personal "Season of Motherhood" - where they are currently in their life as a mother.

We heard from a brand new mother, a mother of teenage boys and young boys, an aunt, a grandmother, a great grandmother, a foster mother, and a great-great grandmother. We heard from a sweet sister who has not yet had any children but shared a loving song to honor her kind mother that made me tear up. She was accompanied by a 95 year old great grandmother who I want to be when I grow up. No joke. She's awesome.

Each of these ladies shared such uplifting and heart felt messages, causing me to feel so close to each of them personally, as well as the family members they spoke of. I missed my own mommy and mother-in-law who weren't there, but could reflect on the love they both have for me and my Sugar. Most importantly, their messages helped me feel the love my Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother have for me. Such a wonderful plan He had for us to come to this Earth and have these blessings we call families.

I loved each of these ladies so much before, but am now just continually inspired by them even more so.

Fresh flowers from the gardens of these sweet sisters decorated our tables
Homemade cookies from our mothers recipe collections

2nd - Activity Days Leader

This calling means I get to work with young girls, ages 8-11 build their testimonies of the Savior, the love for scriptures, and enrich their lives with important skills that will benefit them all of their lives. 

And the best part is, I get to be in their with my big girl.

To be honest, I was nervous when I was extended the call because I thought my girl enjoyed her time away from me, even if it was only for an hour every 2 weeks.

But surprisingly enough when I told that I'd be helping out in there, she was so thrilled. She even gave me a big hug and smiled. She asks me every Wednesday if we have Activity Days and what fun we are going to do. 

How could I not love this calling? The girls are sweet, quirky, and fun. The lessons we have are uplifting, encouraging, and personalized to their needs. And I get to be a part of their lives in a positive way. 

So in this church, this church I go to, this church I'm a member of, this church called The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, we have callings. And I currently have 2 awesome ones. 

Thursday, May 10, 2018

Sub

This morning on our way to school we were talking about this word.

SUB, and all its meanings.

"I want to go on a real sub one day. Like a submarine. I can, right mom?" -  Jack

"Yesterday, I wanted to sub out with dad, so I could take a break from you 2 big kids because you were so rotten! Oh yeah, you know what I'm talking about," as I glare at them both from my rearview mirror. - Me, duh if you couldn't figure that one out.

"I really hate it when Mrs. Hansen has a sub. They are always the worst." - Afton

"What duh heck is a sub? It rhymes with tub, rub, bub." - Jocelyn

"Oh I thought of another one. Sub, like a sub sandwich. Now I'm hungry." Afton

From that sandwich statement, the 2 oldest I wanted to strangle yesterday... the 2 in this picture who are being forced to sit in the circle and say 10 nice things about each other... the 2 of 3 big kids came up with a genius sandwich restaurant.


"Let's make a restaurant called THE SUB. It can look like a classroom, with desks for the seats and the menu on a chalkboard." - Afton

"And we can name our sandwiches after our teachers! We could hang pictures of us with our teachers too." - Jack

"And for dessert, we could have a bunch of apple type things. Apple pies, apple tarts, cinnamon apple cookies, anything with an apple that is yummy." - Afton

I loved it. And the fact that these 2 were coming up with ideas together about a project, instead of coming up with ideas on how to murder each other in their sleep, brought this mom a feeling of such happiness. And the thought of a yummy sub sandwich doesn't suck either. (Day 7 on Keto) 

I helped them out a bit with the naming of sandwiches.

Preschool - Mrs. Bahati Hot Pastrami

Kindergarten - Mrs. Higley's Piggly Wiggly



1st Grade Afton - Mrs. Hathaway's Heater 


Mrs. Thompson's Tuna Melt

1st Grade Jack - Mrs. McDermott's Meatballs - sadly I did not get a picture with this teacher

2nd Grade Afton - Mrs. Day's Deluxe BLT


2nd Grade Jack - Mrs. Cummings' Cool as a Cucumber Club




3rd Grade Afton - Mrs. Hansen's Hot Crossed Buns

I am so thankful for each of these teachers and the impacts they have had on my sweet babes. And I love that my kids love and have such fond memories of the time spent in their classrooms.

Post written a while back, but posted during Teacher Appreciation week!

Monday, May 7, 2018

Beauty and the Beast


Quotes During the Show
"Are those real live humans up there?" ~ Jocy

"Mom. Honestly? I just don't like this at all." ~ Jack

"Jack, I swear if you put your feet on me one more time I'm going to slice them off." ~ Afton


Quotes at Intermission
"Mom. Do you think we can touch the real live humans like we did at that ballet show?" ~ Jocy

"How come Dad gets to leave?"~ Jack

"These cookies are gross. Do you think they have anything else in the back?" ~ Afton


Quotes After the Show
"My favorite part was Chip and Mrs. Potts. They was the cutest." ~ Jocelyn

And...

"Mom, did you see her boo boos? Geeze Laleeze. They almost hit me in my heads." ~ Jocy


"My favorite was Cogsworth. He was really funny."

And...

Singing to himself as we walk to the car, "Be our guest, be our guest..." ~ Jack


"My favorite was Lumiere. He was just awesome. He made me laugh a lot."

And...

"Do you think I could maybe do some theater classes soon mommy?" ~ Afton

As much as they drive me crazy and make me feel the rage of a beast at times, they truly do find the beauty in all things, eventually.